I hated Jan’s speech to Nadia in Unstoppable Wasp about how even though she forgave Hank for the slap that she holds him responsible for him not being responsible for his mental health. And I don’t hate it because she’s wrong but because it makes Jan into a hypocrite when she was the one who took advantage of Hank’s poor mental state to manipulate him into marrying her.
They get married while Hank was still confused about his real identity for chrissake. Once Hank finally regained control of his mind, Janet felt somewhat guilty about what she did, but not that guilty since she also reminded Hank that their marriage was definitely legal. That is awful and it makes Janet look like a horrible person. Nadia (who has also shown signs of mental illness like her father) would probably not have taken Janet’s last name had she knew.