People on this Hell site like to say Peter Parker is terrible and irresponsible and his fans apologists.
I don’t think those people are honestly familiar with Spider-Man’s character, are outright misinterpreting things, taking them out of context or else judging him based upon stories where he is out of character, e.g. everything after One More Day.
If fans defend him so much it’s only because he’s subjected to a ridiculous amount of misinformation and misinformed opinions. In fairness he isn’t the only one. I shake my head every time someone calls Superman a fascist or labels Batman as insane.
There are just a lot of misinformed and/or dumb morons on this goddam website.