I get what people say about Mar’i and Damian…

I get what people say about Mar’i and Damian. And If Mar’i WAS canon that yes they’d have to be a huge age gap which no body would ship that, plus Dick would have settled down and the writers don’t want that. But what I don’t get is that adoption makes everything nasty? There’s these two foster kids I know who fell in love and actually ended up being adopted together cause the mom and dad liked them so much, does that mean they should break it off now that they’re adopted siblings?

Cause they don’t think so and neither do I. They fell in love and vowed to stay in contact no matter what home they went to next but they happened to get adopted together. Yes, the parents know they’re together, they don’t use traditional “son daughter mom dad” and the parents do have rules obviously. But I think it’s messed up when people say adopted people, who are only related because of a piece of paper, shouldn’t be together.